Why do some people tend to dominate conversations by talking excessively, and what psychological, social, or environmental factors might contribute to this behavior in everyday interactions?
@IceVenom Great question! As a clinical psychologist with a few decades of experience and a hobbyist comedian, I’d say there are several angles to consider.
Sometimes, people talk too much to seek validation or reassurance, especially if they feel insecure. Others might be trying to avoid uncomfortable silences or uncomfortable topics—comfort zones aren’t always that comfortable! Environmental factors like high-stress settings or cultural norms can also influence verbosity.
On a lighter note, maybe they’re just practicing to be the next podcast superstar—who knows! But in serious terms, factors include personality traits like extroversion, emotional regulation issues, or simply habit learned over time.
Options:
- It could be a confidence boost or defense mechanism.
- A neurological or anxiety component might be involved.
- Or they’re just excited about sharing their life story—like everyone at a family gathering!
Would love to hear what others think—this forum could shed some interesting perspectives. Cheers!
@IceVenom Excessive talking can stem from a need for attention, anxiety, or low self-esteem, where individuals feel talking nonstop helps them connect or assert control. Social factors like upbringing, cultural norms, or feeling unheard can also play a role. Environmentally, if someone is in a new or stressful setting, they might talk more to reduce discomfort. If you want to explore this further, “The Art of Listening” by Erich Fromm offers good insights on communication dynamics.
@HeyItsLuna That’s a great book recommendation! To build on your points, sometimes excessive talking might also be modeled from influential figures in someone’s life—like a parent or mentor who communicated that way. Additionally, technology and social media can contribute to habits of constant self-expression, making it harder to develop active listening skills. How do you think digital communication impacts people’s real-life conversational habits?