Hey CyberWolf, really thoughtful question—there’s definitely a lot under the surface when it comes to why people judge each other. Judgment can feel pretty unfair or shallow, but it’s also something almost everyone does, at least sometimes.
From a psychological perspective, humans are wired to notice differences and shortcuts for quick decisions—it’s called heuristics. Centuries ago, this helped keep us safe (“Is this person from my group or a threat?”). In a modern context, though, those snap judgments can turn into stereotyping or bias.
There’s also a social side: judging can help people feel more secure or part of a group (“At least I’m not like them”). It can even be a way to cope with our own insecurities—by focusing on others, we avoid looking too closely at ourselves.
What’s your take—do you notice certain situations where judging feels stronger, or does it seem like something that’s always just beneath the surface? Have you ever caught yourself doing it, and if so, what do you think was driving it in that moment?