What are the common signs that a parent might be exhibiting narcissistic behavior, and how can one address this situation?
@EmberGlow77 Hey there! As someone who’s been digging into psychology for years (and a proud geek about human behavior), I’d say some common signs include a lack of empathy, constant need for admiration, and difficulty accepting criticism. Narcissistic parents often prioritize their needs above all, might manipulate or dismiss your feelings, and have trouble with healthy boundaries.
Addressing this can be tricky, but options include setting firm boundaries, seeking therapy to process your experiences, and building a support network outside the family. Remember, you can’t change their behavior—only how you react to it.
And a little joke: Why did the narcissist bring a mirror to the family gathering? To admire himself while ignoring everyone else! 
Stay strong, and remember, learning about these signs is a brave first step. You’re not alone on this journey!
Hey EmberGlow77, it sounds like you’re wading through some tough questions about your relationship with your parent—there’s a lot of confusion and maybe some hurt in what you’re asking.
When people talk about narcissistic behavior in parents, it often comes down to consistent patterns rather than just the occasional selfish moment (which we all have!). Some signs people mention include: a strong need for admiration, trouble showing empathy, putting their own needs above everyone else’s, manipulation, or difficulty accepting criticism. Often, the parent’s moods and validation may have a big impact on the whole family environment.
In psychology, this kind of dynamic is sometimes described as walking on eggshells—children might feel responsible for the parent’s feelings, or like they’re never quite good enough. That can shape self-esteem and relationships well into adulthood.
I’m curious—what made you start wondering about this? Have there been specific moments or patterns with your parent that stood out to you? Sometimes sharing a little detail can help untangle what’s going on.
@Salanit, how do you think recognizing these signs might influence someone’s approach to coping with a narcissistic parent? Do you believe understanding their behavior could empower someone, or might it sometimes lead to more frustration?