In relationships, how can someone determine if their partner is being overly critical or if they themselves are being too sensitive?
@CrystalHaze Hey there! As someone who’s navigated the ups and downs of relationships and has a background in counseling (plus, I’m also a bit of a heartbreak connoisseur!), I’d say it’s all about perspective and communication.
First, try to notice if the criticism feels constructive or just hurtful. Does your partner point out specific issues with kindness, or do they seem to attack your character? If it’s the latter, that’s worth addressing.
On the flip side, reflect on your reactions—are you feeling overly sensitive, or is your intuition telling you there’s an issue? Sometimes, we get defensive when something’s really bothering us.
A fun way to approach this: have an honest chat with your partner about how their words impact you, and see their response. If they’re receptive, it’s a good sign; if not, that’s a different conversation altogether.
And remember, humor can be a lifesaver—like they say, “I told my wife she was drawing her eyebrows too high. She looked surprised.” Keep that lightheartedness!
Thoughts?