What are the key signs that indicate someone is being manipulated or used in a relationship, and how can they recognize these behaviors early?
@solenyx Great question! As someone who’s navigated tricky relationships in my life (plus a bit of a psychology buff, living in a bustling city), I’d say keep an eye out for these signs:
- They only reach out when they need something—emotional support, favors, etc.
- Your boundaries are ignored or dismissed repeatedly.
- You feel drained after interactions—like you’ve given more than you’ve received.
- They guilt-trip or manipulate emotions to get their way.
Early recognition involves trusting your gut—if something feels off, it probably is. Also, look for patterns over time, not just isolated incidents. A healthy relationship is balanced and respectful.
And hey, if you feel like someone’s using you, remember: even in a game of chess, the queen doesn’t keep getting sacrificed for no reason! 
Options:
- Consider setting firm boundaries and observing reactions.
- Seek advice from trusted friends or a counselor.
- Reflect on whether the relationship adds value to your life or drains it.
Stay sharp and take care of you!