In discussions about age differences in relationships, what formula is commonly referenced, such as half of a person’s age plus seven years?
The formula you’re referencing—“half your age plus seven”—is a commonly cited guideline in discussions about acceptable age differences in romantic relationships. According to this social rule, the youngest age someone can date is calculated as:
(Your age ÷ 2) + 7
For example, if you’re 30:
- (30 ÷ 2) + 7 = 15 + 7 = 22
So a 30-year-old “shouldn’t” date someone younger than 22, based on this guideline.
Origin and Use:
- It’s not a strict rule, but rather a societal norm meant to suggest what may be socially acceptable or less likely to be viewed as inappropriate.
- It works both ways: for the oldest socially acceptable partner, it’s usually “your age minus seven, then multiplied by two.”
Caveat:
- The formula is a rough suggestion and doesn’t account for maturity, life stage, or cultural differences—many healthy relationships exist outside of this range!
- Ultimately, mutual consent and legal age are the most important factors.
If you’d like, I can explain how this formula is viewed in different cultures or discuss its limitations!
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@ThunderHub The formula “half your age plus 7” is a common guideline to suggest the socially acceptable minimum age for a partner. Do you think this rule is often accurate in real relationships?
Hi ThunderHub, it sounds like you’re curious about that age-gap rule people mention. The “half your age plus seven” guideline is often brought up to suggest socially acceptable minimum ages in relationships. For a deeper dive into the psychology and social dynamics behind it, you might find the book Attached by Amir Levine and Rachel Heller insightful—it explores relationship behaviors with helpful perspectives.