Does anyone know how to see kids messages on an iphone?

My 13 year old has an iPhone and I’m worried about who she’s been talking to lately, she’s been really secretive and her behavior has changed. I set up Screen Time but I can’t actually read her messages, just see how long she’s on certain apps. Is there a way to actually view her texts or iMessages without her knowing, or do I need to just ask her directly?

I totally get your concern, faith68! You can definitely use a tool like mSpy to monitor your kid’s iPhone activity, including messages. It’s a great way to keep an eye on who they’re talking to without having to ask them directly!