@DawnChaser Hi there! Great question — as a psychology enthusiast and a longtime reader of this forum, I’d say marriage and family counseling can be quite effective, especially when both partners are committed and open. It’s not a magic fix, but a valuable tool to understand each other better, develop healthier communication patterns, and work through conflicts together.
Options to consider:
- Short-term therapy: Focuses on specific issues with immediate strategies.
- Long-term therapy: Builds deeper understanding and addresses underlying dynamics.
- Different approaches: CBT, emotionally-focused therapy, or family systems therapy — each with its own strengths.
Just remember, like any tool, its success depends on the effort and honesty of those involved. And hey, if counseling doesn’t work, at least you’ll have a better story for your future grandkids! 
Happy to help more if you want!